Ever wondered whether your actions are scaring him off? More often than not, the things women do scare men. They feel like they’re being rushed into a relationship or are struggling trying to find time to meet you. Here are some of the things you could be doing that is leading to losing him for good.
Being Too Busy to Meet Him
If he can’t see you, why would he want to be with you? There is nothing in it for him. While work and life get in the way, you need to create time to see each other.
That doesn’t mean every time he asks you out you have to say yes. If you already have plans or have committed to something else, invite him along or give him a different date.
Rushing the Relationship
It’s common for women to jump into relationships feet first. Even if you’ve been hurt in the past, rushing can be part of your mental makeup. But it’s not his. You don’t want to rush things.
Take a step back and breathe every time you feel it. Things will happen. You just have to be patient and let nature take its course.
Not Being Confident Enough
There’s a fine line making him want you because you need him but not being confident enough. More often than not, women stray to the needy side too much.
You want to get out there and show him you’re happy to do stuff on your own and you are independent. He doesn’t want to get a few years into the relationship to find you rely on him for everything.
Being Too Confident
Of course, you could go too far the other way. There is such a thing as too much confidence. It’s arrogance. He doesn’t need to hear that you’re better than him at everything or hear you boast about the degree you have when he doesn’t have one.
He wants you to be confident, but he needs to feel good in the relationship too. You can meet the line by showing you are independent but calling him for things like putting up the shelves or helping with a wardrobe.
You’re Flirting With Other Guys
Flirting with other men is going to make him jealous, but not in a good way. It makes him question your actions and whether you would do something else with the guys.
He wants to feel secure in the relationship, like he’s the only guy you look at. If you give him a reason to think otherwise, he is going to walk away.
Being Too Enthusiastic
If your crush has just asked you out, you’ll feel excited and eager to set the first date…and then the second, third and so on. If you’re too enthusiastic, you’re going to scare him away.
It’s like jumping into the relationship too quickly. Again, take a step back when you feel the excitement build and practise some self-control. He will love you much more.